Vagina by Naomi Wolfe. The Best book for a woman to understand herself or for a man to understand any woman sexually. Want to be a good lover? Read this. Warning: it can be a bit of a difficult read. 

Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl. The Bible of Female Sexuality

Sacred Pleasure or anything by Riane Eisler

Reclaiming Goddess Sexuality; The Power of the Feminine Way by Linda E. Savage PhD

The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin PhD. Understand your sexual template and how to work with it

Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow. The science and hormones of love and sex

On Sacred Sexuality

Attached; The New Science of Adult Attachment And How it Can Help You Find And Keep Love by Amir Levine. This is about Attachment and Bonding which is what I studied in graduate school. I recommend any books on Attachment Science. 

Love Sense or Hold Me Tight or anything else by Susan Johnson the creator of EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy which is based on Attachment and  the only research and evidence based couples therapy proven to work. 

Wired For Love or anything else by Stan Tatkin PsyD. The Attachment Bible.  

The Science of Trust or anything else by John Gottman PhD. The foremost research expert on committed relationships and what keeps people together or not. 

Falling in Love by Ayala Malach Pines- Why We Choose The Lovers We Choose And what to do about it!

On Relationship

Awakening Shakti: The Transformative Power of the Goddesses of Yoga. Amazing book on Indian Goddesses including the Mahavidyas or tantric wisdom Goddesses. 

Tantric Visions of the Divine Feminine - The Ten Mahavidyas

Tantric Quest and Desire or anything else by Daniel Odier

Kali Rising; Foundational Principles of Tantra for a Transforming Planet By Rudolph Ballentine , Presents the powerful tantric concepts of Yin Masculine and Yang Feminine versus Yang Masculine and Yin Feminine 

On Tantra Yoga

The Tao of Sexology; The Book of Infinite Wisdom by Dr. Stephen T Chang. A little old fashioned but a gem of wisdom. 

The Sexual Teachings of The White Tigress: Secrets of the Female Taoist Masters by Hsi Lai

The Sexual Teachings of the Jade Dragon: Taoist Methods for Male Sexual Revitalization by Hsi Lai

Toaist Books

Pussy A Reclamation by Regina Thomashauer. A gorgeous poetic book and must read by the creator of Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts. This is her best book. Courtesan University and my courses for women pick up where Mama Gena’s work ends. Blessed Be. 

Simply Irresistible by Ellen T White. A fun read on famous seductresses in history. 

The Beauty Myth; How Images of Beauty Are Used Against Women or anything by Naomi Wolf. Brilliant national bestseller. 

The Optimized Woman; Using Your Menstrual Cycle to Achieve Success and Fulfillment by Miranda Grey. Fun and Brilliant. Must read for all bleeding women. 

4 Seasons in 4 Weeks; Awakening the Power, Wisdom, and Beauty in Every Woman’s Nature by Susan Mathis McQueen. Fun and Brilliant. Must read for all bleeding women. 

Taking Charge of Your Fertility; The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control and Pregnancy Achievement by Toni Weschler MPH. The Fertility Awareness Bible. 

A Cooperative Method of Natural Birth Control by Margaret Nofziger. The mini Fertility Awareness Bible. 

Beating Endo; How to Reclaim Your Lie From Endometriosis By Iris Orbuch MD and Amy Stein DPT

Hormone Repair Manual; Guide to Healthy Hormones After 40  by Lara Briden 

Brilliant Burnout; How Successful Driven Women Can Stay in the Game by Rewiring Their Bodies, Brains and Hormones  By Naisha Jackson PhD

Transitions Through The Perimenopausal Years; Demystifying the Journey By Jerilynn C. Prior, Andrea Swan and Lissa Zala

For Women

Women of the Light- The New Sacred Prostitute. Stories of modern sacred prostitutes by Kenneth Ray Stubbs PhD

The Sacred Prostitute- the little green book by Nancy Qualls-Corbett

The Sacred Prostitute/Sexual Priestess

The Radiance Sutras- Tantra Yoga Teachings For Opening to the Divine in Everyday Life, 112 Gateways to The Yoga of Wonder and Delight. One of the best tantric texts ever written. Poetry. A must read!

Love’s Alchemy- Poems From the Sufi Tradition. For Ecstatics like me…

Love Poems From God- Twelve Sacred Voices from the East and West by Daniel Ladinsky. St. Francis of Assisi, Rumi, Hafiz, St. Teresa of Avila… Need I say more? 

Poetry

It Didn't Start With You by Mark Wolyyn. This is one of my teachers in Systemic and Family Constellations on transgenerational and systemic trauma and how to heal it. 

Anything by David Deida, Mantak Chia, Penny Slinger and Kenneth Ray Stubbs PhD

The Anastasia Series by Vladimir Megre

Additional Recomendations

The Arts of The Courtesan: ™ Sacred Seductress Archetypes of The Enlightened Feminine. In the process of being written. 

The Heart Centered Pick Up Artist ™ - For Men, in the process of being published. 

Being A Sex Goddess: Become Multi-Orgasmic And Help Your Man Become Multi-Orgasmic Too!™ In the process of being published. 

The Christed Couple:™ Sacred Sexuality and Passionate, Sustainable Spiritual Sex in Committed Relationships. 

My Books

Here are some resources for rejuvenation and healthy lifestyle-
http://www.optimumhealth.org/

Massage Oil and Herbs-  Banyan Botanicals

SF Sex Hotline-Free, confidential, accurate, nonjudgmental information about sex.

Scarleteen – Sex education resource for teens. Could help with talking about sex with your kids if you have them.

Additional Recomendations