1- Religious and cultural shaming around female sexuality and pleasure that has been going on for thousands of years as well as sexual traumas either experienced personally or passed down through the lineage. Let’s heal this once and for all and not pass it down to our children!  2- Women in general are biologically wired […]

The most common problem women have in relationships is lack of sexual desire. It’s one of the primary reasons relationships and marriages end.  As a tantra teacher for over a decade the main reason men came to see me  was because they were not having sex with their wives and hadn’t for a long time, […]

Whatever you train your body to do alone will make it that much easier or harder when you are with a woman in a s exual experience. This is why when boys masturbate quickly for fear of being caught or out of shame, they train themselves to come quickly when they are with a female […]

“Ancient beauty shall pour over the land. Primal beauty, beauty that shall stop the mind. Beauty from all Pastime, blended into the Now. Beauty of unprecedented splendor shall flow across the land.” The Star-Stone ones by Marie Saint-Marie 1- Become a Sacred Seductress. The Sacred Seductress Empress Archetype in my Archetypes of the Empowered Feminine […]

“And if every way is closed before you the secret one will show a secret path no other eyes have seen.” Rumi Who is The Secret Geisha?  This archetype relates to Gemini in Western Astrology, The Monkey in Chinese Astrology and The Lovers in The Tarot.  She is about the tantra path of mastering unity […]

For the last few years as i’ve been birthing my online business I’ve been working especially hard on my masculine energy. I did not have great role modeling in this regard as men in my family struggled with addiction and were either overly passive or overly militant. As a result I was afraid of and […]

My maternal grandfather was a police officer and he shot and permanently injured a black man in the Chicago riots. Shortly after he was murdered by The Black Panthers while on duty coming back from escorting a class of disabled children on a field trip. My mom was only 4 years old when her father […]

When severe hierarchy and domination is taught in families rather than more egalitarian models then inequities around gender, race, class etc. are accepted and perpetuated in society!  The systems of domination and hierarchy that allow the 99% to exploit the 1% are actually taught in rigid authoritarian families that use punishment and violence to control […]

They live in Nashville and met at a Christian University in Texas where they were studying to be pastors! Now her husband had given her an ultimatum. They had to do something about their sex life or he wanted an open marriage! They have 3 children, one of which is special needs, and the man […]

I’ve heard some prophecies and theories lately about the dark goddesses returning  with a vengeance including a prophecy of Sekhmet, The Lion Headed Goddess of war, plagues and famines in the egyptian pantheon whose stories are incredibly similar to Durga and Kali in Hindu and Tantric mythology.   These Goddesses are all demon slayers who are […]